After 23 Years of Marriage, Wife Asks Husband on a Date and Learns He Is Ashamed of Her — Story of the Day

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Mary and Jack had been married for 23 years and had four children. Their life was busy and predictable. Mary spent her days cooking, cleaning, doing laundry, and helping their children with homework. Jack, on the other hand, worked all day, then came home and watched television until dinner. Their marriage had settled into a routine, and the spark that once lit their relationship seemed to have faded.

At night, after finishing all her chores, Mary would sit alone watching romantic movies. She dreamed of being like the women in the films, going on dates, laughing over candlelit dinners, and feeling loved. But when she looked in the mirror, reality hit her hard.

She no longer saw the young, vibrant woman from their wedding photo. Instead, a tired, worn-out version of herself stared back. Her hair was always messy, her clothes were simple and practical, and dark circles shadowed her eyes. She sighed and turned away.

But that night, an idea formed in her mind. Why not change things? Why not bring back the romance? She made a decision—she would ask Jack out on a date.

The next evening, when Jack came home from work, Mary sat him down at the dinner table. She took a deep breath, forcing a smile. “Jack, I was thinking… maybe we can go on a date? There’s a nice new restaurant downtown. We could check it out together.”

Jack raised an eyebrow and scoffed. “A date? Why would we go on a date? Is it our anniversary or something?”

Mary shook her head gently. “No, it’s not a special day. But we can make it special. It would be nice to spend time together, just the two of us.”

Jack frowned. Instead of feeling touched, he felt annoyed. “Look at yourself, Mary. You look terrible. I’m not going anywhere with you.”

Her heart clenched at his words. She had just spent the entire day cleaning and taking care of the kids. Of course, she didn’t look glamorous. “Jack, I just finished doing all the housework. That’s why—”

Jack interrupted her. “No, you look like this every day. You used to take care of yourself—fix your hair, wear nice clothes. Now you look like an old maid. When did you stop caring?”

Tears welled up in Mary’s eyes. Jack sighed, shaking his head. “Even when you cry, you look awful. You want the truth? I’m ashamed of you. I can’t take you out looking like this.”

With those cruel words, Jack grabbed his coat and left the house.

He drove to his friend Samuel’s house, hoping to grab a few beers and unwind. But when Jack asked him to come to the bar, Samuel shook his head. “Sorry, mate. I’m taking my wife on a date tonight. There’s this new place downtown I want to take her to.”

Jack rolled his eyes. “A date? Isn’t that something you do for anniversaries or birthdays?”

Before Samuel could answer, his wife, Linda, came down the stairs, beaming. She held a bouquet of fresh flowers in her arms. “Sam, I just found these on our bed! Did you leave them there?” she asked, smiling brightly.

Samuel grinned. “Yep, surprise! And here’s something else…” He reached behind the door and handed her a paper bag.

Linda opened it and gasped. Inside was a gorgeous evening dress. “Oh, Sam! This is beautiful! You’re the best husband! I’m going to wear this on our date tonight!” She kissed him on the cheek and rushed upstairs to change.

Jack stood frozen, watching their exchange. Linda looked so happy—radiant, even. “Sam, your wife looks beautiful. You two seem so in love. My wife barely smiles anymore. She always looks miserable.”

Samuel sighed and asked, “When was the last time you took Mary on a date?”

Jack thought for a moment. “I don’t know… maybe two years ago?”

Samuel smacked him lightly on the arm. “Two years ago?! And now you’re complaining that she doesn’t smile?” He shook his head. “Let me tell you something, Jack. I make every single day special for my wife. She’s the heart of our home, and she deserves love and appreciation. You know why Linda always looks happy? Because she feels loved. She wants to look her best, not because I demand it, but because she feels valued.”

Jack swallowed hard, realizing the truth in Samuel’s words. He had taken Mary for granted. He had let their marriage become nothing more than a routine, while Samuel had kept the romance alive.

Samuel patted Jack’s shoulder. “When I take Linda on a date, it’s not because it’s a special day. It’s because I choose to make every day special. Try it, mate. You might be surprised at the difference it makes.”

Jack nodded slowly, feeling a wave of guilt and realization wash over him. “Thanks, Sam. I should go home.”

When Jack returned, he found Mary sitting quietly in the living room, her eyes red from crying. He felt a deep pang of regret. He approached her with a small gift box in his hand.

“Mary, I need to apologize,” he said, his voice softer than before. “I was cruel earlier, and you didn’t deserve that. I was wrong.”

Mary looked up at him, surprised. He placed the gift in her hands. She opened it and found a beautiful silver necklace inside. Tears filled her eyes again, but this time, they weren’t from sadness.

“Would you go on a date with me tomorrow?” Jack asked gently. “I booked us a table at that new restaurant downtown.”

A smile slowly spread across Mary’s face—the same radiant smile she used to have when they were younger. “This is beautiful, Jack. Thank you. And yes, I would love to go on a date with you.”

The next evening, as Jack waited for Mary, he saw something incredible. She had transformed before his eyes. She wore a lovely dress, her hair was neatly styled, and her eyes sparkled with happiness. But what truly stunned him was the glow of confidence and joy on her face.

That night, they laughed, talked, and reconnected in a way they hadn’t in years. It felt like they had traveled back in time to when they were young and in love.

From that day forward, Jack made a promise to himself—he would never take Mary for granted again. He would cherish her, appreciate her, and make sure she knew she was loved. And in doing so, he discovered that love wasn’t about grand gestures or special occasions. It was about the little things, the everyday moments, and the effort to make each day meaningful.

What can we learn from this story?

You don’t need a special occasion to celebrate love. Every day can be special if you choose to make it that way. Jack thought dates were only for anniversaries, but Samuel taught him that love should be nurtured daily.

Show your loved ones appreciation, love, and support. The small things we do every day—kind words, thoughtful gestures—keep love alive and make relationships stronger.