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Am I a Bad Mother for Kicking My Pregnant Daughter Out?

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I’m so caught up in the twists and turns of my story that I don’t even know where to begin! When my daughter told me she was pregnant, I thought she was on the path to college! But she did something so unexpected, it left me no choice but to act.

Hi, everyone. My name is Ella, and my daughter, Rose, just turned 19 this year. I need your thoughts on a challenging story I’m about to share. Rose, who is fifteen, has been dating Nathan, a twenty-year-old, for a year now.

Alright, I’ll be honest: as a single mom who’s been through a lot, I had my doubts about Nathan. But to my surprise, he turned out to be a genuinely nice guy. I started thinking of him as another son.

When I found out something I didn’t want for her at that age, I wasn’t too thrilled. “Mom, I have to tell you something, but you need to promise me that you won’t be upset,” she said one day when she got home.

Naturally, I had heard that line before and prepared myself for the worst. I cursed myself for letting Nathan get close as my imagination conjured up all sorts of scenarios. I even blamed myself for lowering my defenses around him.

Somehow, I had a feeling he was involved in whatever Rose wanted to talk about.

But I tried to keep my cool and be a good parent. “What is it, baby? You know you can tell me anything,” I said calmly. She sighed, took a deep breath, and said hesitantly:

“I’m carrying Nathan’s child. You’re going to be a grandmother.”

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I was stunned! For some reason, I hadn’t even considered that possibility. Rose was still a baby herself, and now she was going to be a mother! I felt a wave of disappointment as I thought about how her life would change so drastically.

I imagined all the things she’d have to deal with now, how her college plans might have to be postponed, or even abandoned. Seeing the worry in my eyes, my daughter tried to comfort me:

“I know you wanted me to focus on my future, but Nathan and this baby are part of that future.”

She assured me everything would be fine. I let myself feel a bit of joy at the thought of becoming a grandmother. I hugged her and congratulated her and Nathan. Then Rose pulled back and said:

“Well, I have another surprise for you.”

She held out her left hand, and there was a ring on her wedding finger!

“When he proposed, I said yes, Mom!” I could see Nathan cared deeply for my daughter and her future. I was overjoyed for my baby girl!

Even though I had my doubts, I couldn’t help but get excited. Their wedding and the birth of my first grandchild were reasons to celebrate! I let them stay in my house, wanting to be involved in their lives.

Nathan started working on building a stable future for his new family. We even set up a special room in my house for the nursery. Decorating it together was so much fun! But one afternoon, everything changed.

I got home earlier than usual, arms full of cheap stuff from the local store, preparing for my grandchild’s arrival. I had no idea the peace of that day was about to shatter.

I walked into the kitchen with a spring in my step, only to see Rose standing there in her underwear, looking shocked. My heart started racing as I sensed something was wrong.

“Mum! Why are you home so early?” Rose stammered.

“Baby, who are you talking to?” a deep, unfamiliar voice called from the hallway before I could respond. My stomach turned as I realized it wasn’t Nathan!

Rose had two steaming cups of coffee in her hands, and I finally noticed. I dropped the diapers and other items. My hands still shake thinking about that day.

“I thought I’d surprise you with these,” I said, raising my voice and pointing to the mess at my feet. But apparently, I’m the one who’s surprised. With my heart racing, I walked towards the voice, ignoring Rose as she begged, “Mom, please, let me explain!”

Ignoring her, I pushed open the bedroom door and saw a man I didn’t know, wrapped in the bedsheet Nathan’s mother had given them!

“Rose, what’s going on here?” I demanded, my voice cold. The man got up, trying to look dignified, which only made me angrier.

“Oh my goodness, ma’am. I didn’t know—” he started, his eyes darting around.

“Get out!” I cut him off harshly. Without hesitation, he ran past me, leaving a trail of regret.

Rose was crying now, her betrayal evident. “It was a mistake, Mom. I was just being foolish. Please don’t tell Nathan. Please,” she pleaded.

“You call that nothing? You’ve betrayed everything we’ve built for you! I cried out, tears stinging my eyes.

“You’ve lied to everyone, not just Nathan. We’ve prepared this home and this room for your future and your child’s.”

Seeing her with another man in the house where we had painted dreams together solidified my resolve even more. “Rose, you made your choice. You have to leave now. I need time to think and decide if I can ever see you the same way.”

Rose fell to the floor, clutching my legs. “Mom, I have no money and nowhere to go! Please, I’m scared,” she said. A piece of me broke as I watched her pack her few belongings through tear-streaked eyes. But the betrayal was too deep, the hurt too fresh.

I sit here now, alone amidst unfinished dreams, considering my options. There’s so much uncertainty about the baby’s paternity—was Rose even carrying Nathan’s child? Should I tell him the painful truth?

Was kicking Rose out the right decision or too harsh?

With a heavy heart, I turn to you, readers of my troubling story: Should I tell Nathan the truth? Was it right to preserve our family’s integrity? Or am I just a mother acting out of hurt and betrayal?

In Ella’s tale, she had to throw her daughter out for betraying her home and everything she and Nathan had done for her. But in another story, a parent had to take similarly tough measures because of a future daughter-in-law’s arrogance and demands.

Is it wrong that I kicked out my future daughter-in-law after she demanded my jewelry?
Ah, the drama of inherited rings! Here’s an intriguing Reddit story about engagement troubles that could rival any soap opera!

The protagonist is a 48-year-old mother who loves jewelry and has an impressive collection, including an emerald ring. Her 22-year-old son, engaged to his girlfriend, invites his fiancée over for what seemed like a simple meal.

When the future daughter-in-law expressed her admiration for her rarely worn emerald ring, things got awkward. She didn’t just admire it—she explicitly requested it as an heirloom engagement gift, in addition to the significant wedding gifts already planned!

Clearly taken aback, our Reddit user accused her future daughter-in-law of preying on her estate. The young woman argued it’s normal for heirlooms to be passed down during one’s lifetime.

The situation quickly escalated, leading to the daughter-in-law being asked to leave, and her fiancé storming out after her.

The son suggested that giving the ring would have been a kind gesture, siding with his fiancée. Although her husband and daughter supported her decision, mom was stunned by her son’s unexpected stance.

Now, the future daughter-in-law is furious, the family is divided, and the mother is holding fast to her jewelry. What a dramatic story, right? Folks, hold on to those rings and brace yourself for the family drama!

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