I Gave My House to My Son — He Betrayed Me in a Horrific Way

One of the worst feelings is betrayal, and when it comes from a close family member, it’s even worse. Let me tell you about a time I felt completely shattered when my own son lied to me.

I wanted to help my son and his young wife start their family comfortably, so I decided to gift them my house. I thought it would be the best way to support them. But things took a turn I never saw coming, and it left me heartbroken. So, I decided to reach out and share my story, hoping for some guidance.

Here’s my story and some advice I received:

Seek Therapy or Mediation

First, I was told to seek therapy or mediation. A family meeting with a counselor or mediator could help. I needed to express to my son and daughter-in-law just how deeply their betrayal hurt me.

“Tell them how much their deceit has hurt and deceived you,” they said.

A mediator could help us have a healthy discussion about our expectations and feelings. Maybe we could find some common ground and come up with a solution that addressed everyone’s needs. I wanted them to understand my sacrifice and why I was so upset about the way things had turned out.

Rethink Your Living Situation

Next, I had to reconsider my living situation. It was suggested that I propose an alternative arrangement. Maybe my daughter-in-law and son-in-law could find a smaller place for themselves, and I could get my home back.

“If needed, you can provide financial support, but make sure they know that your promise to give them the house was made with the intention of them creating a family of their own and not living with another adult,” they advised.

I was also told to speak with a lawyer to understand my rights regarding the property. If the house was still legally mine, I might be able to revoke the gift. Knowing my legal rights could help me make informed decisions and might even persuade my son and daughter-in-law to honor the original agreement.

Self-Sufficient Living Options

Lastly, I was encouraged to explore more comfortable and independent living options. Maybe selling the house and using the money to buy a condo or smaller property for myself would be a better option than feeling betrayed and uncomfortable in my own home.

“As a last resort, talk things over with your family and let them know that you’re uncomfortable with the current arrangement and that it needs to alter for your own health,” they suggested.

I never imagined I’d be in this position, feeling betrayed by my own son. But I realized that taking these steps might help me regain control of my life and find a way to heal from this painful experience.