Jessica Alba and Cash Warren ended their relationship amicably at the beginning of 2025, with their three children being their highest priority. But on her birthday, the actress gives a glimpse into what has been missing from her life until now.
Entering a new life with a double-digit number: Former actress Jessica Alba celebrates her 44th — and first — birthday since separating from her now ex-husband Cash Warren, 46. The beauty entrepreneur was married to the film producer and father of her three children for 17 scandal-free years and was in a relationship with him for over 20 years. The breakup came as a surprise, especially after initial rumors surfaced via “TMZ” and Alba confirmed the separation on Instagram in mid-January 2025.
On her special day, the Fantastic Four star shares some reflective thoughts that could also be interpreted as a subtle dig at her ex. Because what Alba wishes for in her new year of life is to finally “feel loved.”
Jessica Alba Wants to Finally “Feel Loved, Seen, and Accepted”
Jessica Alba blows out the candles on her birthday cake. It’s been three and a half months since she first spoke publicly about the separation from Cash Warren. In this moment, countless thoughts and wishes are likely going through her mind. Alba has high hopes for the year ahead. On Instagram, the former Dark Angel star opens up about her emotions.
The mother of Honor (16), Haven (13), and Hayes (6) writes:
“I’m starting this next trip around the sun with grace and gratitude. A big part of my reflection is remembering the essence of who I am and being thankful for what I’ve been given… my babies, you are my greatest gift. Thank you for choosing me to be your mama.”
“Sometimes I Lose Myself”
Then it gets even more personal and emotional. Jessica Alba, who met Cash Warren in 2004 on the set of Fantastic Four, admits:
“Sometimes I lose myself in the things of life, and my pursuit of perfection is exhausting. That’s why I’m creating space to accept myself – with all my flaws – and letting go of the need to control everything.” She has three major wishes for her new year of life:
“To feel loved. To feel seen. To feel accepted. And to know that you are worthy of your biggest dreams.
To my younger self – that little girl… you are safe and you are loved.”
Happy Family with a Bittersweet Aftertaste
Despite the separation, Jessica Alba and Cash Warren continue to present themselves as a united family. They celebrated Easter together with their three children and later shared a harmonious photo on Instagram.
Even in her first statement after the breakup, Alba emphasized on Instagram:
“We move forward with love, kindness, and respect for one another, and we will always be a family. Our children are our top priority.”
Still, the words of the now 44-year-old leave behind a bittersweet aftertaste.
