I had been with Luke for just over a year when we finally booked the trip to meet his family. Honestly, I was excited—maybe even a little nervous. This was a big step. We’d been through long-distance nights, career changes, and lazy Sundays watching movies in pajamas. We’d built something steady.
When Luke said, “I think it’s time you met my family,” and hinted that he might propose if things felt right, my heart did a quiet little leap. This could be the week everything changed.
I packed carefully. A pair of flats for dinner, heels just in case. I folded up the soft blue dress I’d only worn once, just in case something… magical happened. Maybe a fancy dinner. Maybe the moment.
On the morning of our flight, Luke kissed my forehead as I zipped up my boots.
“Lina, you’re going to love my mom,” he said, smiling. “And I know she’s going to love you!”
I smiled back. I wanted that to be true.
We boarded just after noon. The sky outside the window was clear, and the mountains below looked like someone had brushed watercolors across them. Halfway through the flight, with the hum of the engine in the background and my head resting lightly against the seat, Luke turned to me.
What he said next sucked the air right out of my chest.
“When we get there,” he started, casual like we were talking about the weather, “would you mind telling my family you’re Japanese?”
I blinked. “What?” I asked, sure I’d misheard him.
“Not like a whole story,” he rushed. “Just… let them assume, you know? Maybe say a few words in Japanese, mention sushi or something. You don’t have to lie, really—they’ll just get the hint.”
I stared at him. My voice came out firm. “Luke… I’m Chinese.”
“I know,” he said, laughing lightly like this was no big deal. “But my grandma is Japanese, and my brother’s wife is Japanese too. Grandma’s obsessed with the idea of us marrying Japanese women. She’s actually planning to leave her entire estate to Ryan because of it.”
He rolled his eyes. “Ryan’s going to be insufferable if that happens. But if she thinks you’re Japanese, she might—might—leave me the other half.”
My stomach twisted. “So… you want me to pretend… for money?”
He nodded slowly, not even hiding it. “It could be huge, Lina. Seriously. I’ve already looked at what we could do with the money—down payment on a place, investments… It would set us up.”
I didn’t say anything. My silence filled the space between us.
Then, as if that wasn’t enough, he added, “Oh, and I told them to call you Lina-Mei. Your proper name. I don’t know why you drop the Mei all the time.”
I looked at him, and I realized something awful: Luke wasn’t thinking about me. He was thinking about the idea of me—the version that could win his grandma over and unlock a fortune. He had already spent money based on a lie he expected me to tell.
“You should let her invite you to make dumplings,” he said, trying to sound helpful. “She’d love that!”
I stared straight ahead at the seat in front of me, biting the inside of my cheek. My chest wasn’t tight from fear—it was tight from trying to hold in all the words I wanted to scream.
“I’m not Japanese, Luke,” I said quietly but clearly. “And I’m not lying to your family.”
He sighed and leaned back. “Just think about it, Lina. Please.”
I didn’t answer. But I was already thinking—thinking way back to third grade. I remembered standing in the lunch line when my teacher, Mrs. Reynolds, bent down with a smile and said:
“You must be Japanese, right? Lina-Mei… Do you help your mom roll sushi?”
I had looked up at her and said proudly, “I’m Chinese.”
She blinked like it didn’t matter. “That’s the same thing, Lina,” she mumbled, waving me forward.
That night I went home and asked my mom why people always got it wrong. She was washing dishes. I’ll never forget what she said.
“Oh, Lina,” she sighed. “They think we all blend together. But we don’t. You’re not just a shade in someone’s painting. You’re your own color, my petal.”
Now here I was, years later, on a plane with the man I thought might be “the one,” being asked to blend again.
I turned to the window and stayed silent the rest of the flight.
—
When we landed, Luke’s parents were already waiting. His mom, Margaret, had warm eyes and a gravelly voice that felt instantly comforting. His dad, Tom, was quiet but gave me a strong handshake, like he meant it.
That evening, we had dinner with his grandmother, Sumiko.
She walked slowly, leaning on a cane, but she had a strong posture and sharp eyes. The kind of woman who sees everything, even when she pretends not to.
They were kind. No one asked where I was from. No weird stares. Nothing awkward.
Until dinner.
We sat around a long wooden table under soft lights in their sunroom. The food smelled amazing—ginger, garlic, something roasted. Luke sat beside me, glancing at me every few minutes like he was waiting for a cue.
Then Margaret, while reaching for salad, smiled warmly and asked, “So, Lina-Mei. Your name is beautiful! Is it Japanese?”
I paused just for a second, then answered with a calm smile.
“It’s not, no. My family’s from the mainland originally.”
Luke laughed nervously and jumped in. “But she’s always loved Japanese culture. She’s learning the language, actually. The calligraphy!”
I turned to him. “That’s not true,” I said plainly. “I’m not.”
Luke cleared his throat. “I just meant… she appreciates it. Right, babe?”
I didn’t respond.
Across the table, Sumiko watched us. Her eyes narrowed slightly, but she didn’t speak. Margaret, thankfully, changed the subject.
I thought we were done. But we weren’t.
When dessert arrived—green tea ice cream and perfect little fruit tarts—Luke tapped his spoon against his glass.
“I’d like to make a toast!” he said, grinning like a game show host. “To my future wife, Lina-Mei. You’re kind, brilliant, beautiful… and Japanese, just like Grandma always dreamed!”
I placed my spoon down gently. My chest didn’t ache. My heart didn’t break. It just… shifted. Like a glass on the edge of a table.
I stood and brushed my napkin over my lap.
“Luke, we already talked about this. I told you how I felt about lying. About pretending.”
Margaret blinked. “What lie?”
I looked at all of them and said clearly, “I’m not Japanese. I’m Chinese. And I never agreed to lie about that.”
The silence in the room was sharp. No one moved. No one breathed.
Luke looked stunned. “Lina—” he started.
I cut him off with just a glance.
“You wanted me to trade who I am for your inheritance. You didn’t want me. You wanted someone your grandmother might approve of. Someone you could shape. I’m not that person. I’m not your fantasy. And I’m not your ticket to a fortune.”
I picked up my bag. I was ready to go.
But then, Sumiko stood up slowly.
“Lina-Mei,” she said, her voice steady and strong, “please wait.”
I stopped.
She looked tired now. Her shoulders sagged just a bit.
“I’m sorry my foolish grandson dragged you into this. You didn’t deserve that, sweetheart.”
I didn’t speak. But I listened.
“I never said I’d leave everything to Ryan,” she continued. “Luke has never been responsible with money. That’s why I made my decision. It was never about race. If he told you that, that’s on him, not me.”
Her words didn’t erase everything, but they gave me something solid. Something honest.
“Thank you for telling me the truth,” I said softly. “I’m sorry this had to happen here.”
Then I turned and walked away.
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The next morning, I packed quietly. Luke stood in the doorway, arms crossed, looking unsure of himself.
“You’re really leaving?” he asked.
I didn’t look at him. I folded my sweater and placed it carefully in my suitcase.
“I’m not mad at your family, Luke,” I said. “They were kind.”
“Then why leave?” he asked, his voice tight.
“Because of you.”
He ran his hands through his hair.
“It was just an idea. A stupid one. I didn’t mean to hurt you, babe.”
I zipped my suitcase. “You didn’t mean for me to see the real you, Luke. But I did. And I don’t like what I saw.”
He didn’t try to stop me. Maybe that said everything.
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Three hours later, I sat alone at the airport with a warm box of dumplings on my lap. I ate slowly, the familiar flavor anchoring me. Across from me, a little girl lined up her stuffed animals on top of her suitcase.
The world was still turning.
Was it all a waste? A whole year of love, laughter, and plans? Maybe. Maybe not.
I used to think love was about matching perfectly. Now I think it’s about seeing someone—and being seen.
Luke never saw me.
He saw someone he could mold, someone he could use.
He was wrong.
I didn’t cry. I didn’t fall apart. I just sat there, full of peace I didn’t expect.
Next time, I won’t settle for someone who wants to change me.
Next time, I’ll wait for someone who loves me exactly as I am.
And that… will be priceless.