My Ex Never Let Me See My Daughter, but I Still Sent Her Gifts Every Birthday, until Her Letter Broke Me: `Why Would You Forget Me, Mom?` — Story of the Day

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She was turning thirteen. Another birthday without me there. Again.

So I did the only thing I could do—I sent a box. Another gift, one more piece of me she might never get to see. I told myself I was doing my best, but deep down, I knew it wasn’t enough.

Until the day a letter showed up on my porch. On the front, in shaky, uneven handwriting, were the words that nearly broke me:

“Why did you forget me, Mom?”


I had spent hours wrapping her birthday gift. A pale blue dress, soft and delicate, folded carefully with tissue paper like it was treasure.

My fingers moved slowly, like I was afraid the fabric might vanish if I wasn’t gentle. The skirt flowed like water, and the satin waist shimmered just enough to catch the light.

It was the kind of dress every girl should get to twirl in. Grown-up, but still sweet. I added sparkly shoes too—just enough shine for dancing, not too flashy. Perfect.

Then came the hardest part. The note. My hands shook as I wrote.

Happy 13th birthday, sweetheart.

I’m sorry we can’t be together. I know it’s been so long. Please believe me—there is nothing I want more than to hug you. I hope the court allows changes soon. I’ll never stop trying.

I hear you love to dance. I hope you feel beautiful in this dress.

I read it twice, kissed the envelope, and tucked it on top of the shoes. Then I closed the box slowly, like maybe that would give me more time. But time had already slipped away from me.

I sat on the edge of my bed, staring at the box in my lap, my thoughts spinning.

Would she even open it? Would she know it was from me? Or would Joel lie again—tell her it was from someone else?

Would she smile, or just feel confused? Or worse… feel nothing at all?


The next day, I met Joel at a quiet café on the edge of town. It was the kind of place where people minded their own business.

When he arrived, I stood and placed the box gently on the table.

“Please give this to her,” I said softly.

He didn’t even look at me. Just gave a stiff nod.

“How is she?” I asked, my throat tight.

“She’s fine,” he answered flatly.

“Does she still dance? Does she like school?”

He checked his watch, impatient. “She’s busy. And yes, school’s fine.”

I knew that was his way of ending the conversation, but I couldn’t move. My heart wouldn’t let me.

As he stood, I reached out and caught his sleeve.

“Please, Joel,” I whispered, my voice cracking. “Just one day. Let me see her for one day.”

He yanked his arm back like I had burned him. His eyes hardened.

“You did this,” he snapped. “She chose me after the divorce. And after the stunt you pulled sneaking onto my property, you’re lucky the court didn’t do worse.”

Before I could speak, he turned and walked away.

I sat frozen, staring at the empty chair across from me. My cheeks burned. My chest felt hollow. Maybe I really was the villain in her story. Maybe I had ruined everything.


When I finally made it home, there it was—a letter waiting on my porch.

The afternoon sun lit the envelope like it was glowing. My hands trembled before I even picked it up.

It wasn’t a bill. It wasn’t junk mail.

It was different.

My breath caught when I saw the handwriting—nervous, pressed too hard into the page.

On the front: “To Mommy.”

I sat on the porch steps, the wood warm beneath me, and opened it slowly. My heart felt like it might stop.

Hi Mom. It’s me. Dad said I shouldn’t write, but I had to.

Tears blurred my vision. I wiped them, but more came.

I’m okay. I have a stepmom now. She wants me to call her “Mom,” but I don’t want to. It feels wrong.

The words blurred as more tears dropped onto the paper.

Why did you forget me? Why don’t you send me anything anymore? Did I do something wrong?

“No,” I whispered. My voice broke. “No, baby, never.”

I hadn’t forgotten. I sent gifts, letters, photos. I begged Joel to let me see her. She didn’t know. She thought I had let her go.

My hands flew to my laptop, fingers shaking as I typed her school’s website.

Emily’s Spring Dance Showcase — May 12th, 3:00 p.m.

I didn’t think. I just packed a bag. I was going.


The school auditorium buzzed with chatter and shuffling programs. I slipped quietly into the back as the lights dimmed. My heart pounded in my ears.

Then the stage lit up.

And there she was.

Emily.

My daughter.

She walked with such grace it stole my breath. She was wearing the pale blue dress—the one I had wrapped so carefully.

It shimmered under the stage lights, the satin ribbon glowing, the skirt swirling with every turn. She floated like music itself, like wind, like everything I had missed.

Tears filled my eyes. My heart whispered: She knows. She has to know. She can feel it’s from me.

But then the music faded. The lights dimmed. The curtain closed.

And Emily ran.

Not toward me.

She ran straight into Joel’s arms. And then into hers—the woman beside him.

“Thank you, Mom,” Emily said brightly, her face glowing. “The dress is perfect.”

The woman smiled and brushed back her hair. “Not stepmom,” she whispered. “Just Mom.”

Emily nodded, beaming.

And I cracked.

My legs moved before my brain caught up. I pushed through the crowd, my voice breaking.

“Emily!” I called. “Emily…”

She turned, her eyes wide. “Mom?”

“Yes,” I said, my voice trembling. “It’s me. I’m your mother.”

Joel rushed forward, already shouting, but I didn’t back down.

“That dress—I sent it. Every year, I sent you gifts, letters, even your first phone. That was me, baby. I never forgot you.”

Emily stared, blinking fast. Her gaze darted to Joel.

“I’ve been trying,” I whispered. “But your dad… he told you those things came from someone else. He told the court lies.”

Joel snapped, his face red. “Enough—”

But a voice rose from the crowd.

“No. She deserves to speak.”

A man stepped out from the front row. “I’m an attorney. And a father. If what she says is true, I can help.”

Emily’s eyes locked on me, really seeing me for the first time. Her voice shook.

“Dad said I chose him. That I didn’t want you.”

I shook my head fiercely. “Never. I never believed that.”

She turned slowly to Joel.

“Is that true?” she asked.

Joel’s silence said everything.

The air thickened. The gym grew painfully quiet. Every eye was on us.

Finally, Joel muttered, “I just wanted to protect her.”

“By lying?” My whisper cut through the silence sharper than a scream.

His face twisted with anger. “You tried to climb my fence like a lunatic—”

“I was desperate!” I cried. “You blocked my number. You returned my letters. What else could I do?”

Emily’s small hands clenched the fabric of her dress. Her voice broke the tension.

“So all this time… you kept her from me?”

Joel opened his mouth, but nothing came out.

The lawyer stepped closer. “People heard you admit it. You hid the truth. That’s over now.”

Joel tried one last time, reaching for Emily. “I didn’t want to hurt you.”

But she stepped back. Her voice was clear, steady, strong.

“You already did.”

For once, Joel had no reply.


One month later, Emily was curled beside me on the couch. The windows were open, letting the breeze in. Her hand rested in mine.

The court had given me visitation. After years of pain, we were rebuilding. Slowly, but surely.

She asked me questions—about when she was little, about the letters, about the photos I had saved.

“You never gave up on me,” she said quietly.

“I never will,” I promised.

The world outside moved as always. But inside, I finally breathed again.

My daughter knew the truth.

And that was the greatest gift of all.