My Ex-Wife’s Family Invited Me and My Girlfriend to a BBQ—Then Made a Crazy Demand as Soon as We Arrived

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Some Lessons Are Best Served Cold

When Reid said yes to the invitation, he didn’t think twice.

“Family BBQ on Saturday, Reid. Bring Elodie,” the text from Dennis had said.

Dennis was his ex-wife Nadine’s stepfather. A tough old guy who wore denim in the summer and grumbled that all salads were “rabbit food.” But still—he’d always treated Reid with respect. Even after the divorce.

That’s why the message didn’t feel strange. It felt… like a peace offering.

“I think it’s sweet,” Elodie, Reid’s fiancée, said as she read over his shoulder. “Maybe it’s their way of making peace.”

Reid smiled. “That’s what I was thinking too.”

Three years had passed since his marriage to Nadine ended. It hadn’t been a messy breakup, but it still left cracks. Reid had done everything he could to stay on good terms with her family—not because he missed her, but because he didn’t believe in burning bridges that didn’t need to be burned.

Especially with Dennis, who still called him when the porch light needed fixing or when the lawn mower wouldn’t start.

It wasn’t normal, Reid knew that. His friends often gave him weird looks when he mentioned helping his ex’s mom move furniture or attending her cousin’s toddler’s birthday party. But to him, it was about peace. About being decent.

So on Saturday, Reid and Elodie arrived at the barbecue carrying trays of food: grilled sausages, creamy potato salad, and a homemade pasta salad with extra cheese. Elodie wore a flowing yellow dress and braided her hair in a way that always made Reid’s heart skip a beat.

They were ready for a relaxed afternoon—grilled meat, maybe some awkward small talk, and a few laughs under the sun.

But they were not ready for what actually happened.

Dennis met them at the gate, smiling strangely and holding a black trash bag in one hand.

“Glad you made it, Reid!” he said, clapping him on the back. “But before you go back there—got a quick favor?”

“Sure,” Reid replied, placing the sausage tray on the porch.

“There’s dog crap all over the patio,” Dennis said, nodding toward the backyard. “Figured Elodie could clean that up. And you? You can help dig out the back garden. I need to clear it for a greenhouse I’m building this week.”

Reid blinked. He chuckled. Surely this was a joke.

But Dennis didn’t laugh.

Behind him, the backyard was buzzing. Music played, people chatted and laughed, and Nadine—Reid’s ex-wife—was already sipping a drink, not even trying to make eye contact. When their eyes did meet, she just looked away like this had all been expected.

Reid’s stomach twisted.

Elodie stood stiff beside him. Still smiling politely, but her hand gripped his arm a little tighter.

“I’m sorry,” Reid said, trying to stay calm. “But we came here for a barbecue. Not to do chores.”

Dennis shrugged, that same annoying smile on his face. “Everybody earns their place around here. No freeloaders.”

Reid stared at him. “Cleaning up dog mess and digging up your garden is ‘earning our place’?”

“It’s just a bit of work,” Dennis said casually. “I’m cooking the food. It’s the least you could do.”

The words hung in the air like a slap.

Elodie leaned closer to Reid and whispered, “Reid, we don’t have to do this, babe. Let’s just go.”

And just like that, the decision was made.

Without another word, Reid picked up the trays, nodded to Dennis, and turned around. He and Elodie walked back to the car. No yelling, no arguing. Just quiet dignity.

Twenty minutes later, they were sitting on the patio of a cheerful pub with hanging flower baskets and the delicious smell of grilled onions in the air. They clinked their glasses over the quiet sound of a stream nearby. No chores, no tension—just peace.

But peace didn’t last long.

By the time they got home, Reid’s phone buzzed. Facebook notifications and DMs popped up.

Nadine’s teenage cousins had posted shady comments.

“Some people think they’re too good to help.”

“Can’t handle a little work? Stay the heck out of the family then.”

Reid rolled his eyes. But Elodie looked genuinely hurt—not by the words, but by the betrayal.

“We were invited like guests,” she said quietly. “And they made us feel like trash.”

Reid clenched his jaw. He had brought her into this. He thought he was doing the right thing. But now he realized—maybe it was time to stop trying to belong to people who never treated him like he did.

So two weeks later, he sent Dennis a message.

“Dennis, hosting a dinner next Friday. Family only. Hope you and Nadine can make it.”

Dennis replied quickly.

“Looking forward to it, boy. We’ll bring wine!”

When Reid told Elodie, her eyebrows lifted.

“Why are we inviting them here, Reid?”

“I just want to feed them,” Reid said with a crooked smile. “Properly.”

Elodie stared at him, unsure.

“Reid… this isn’t necessary.”

“It is,” he said firmly. “It’s not about food. It’s about showing them what real respect looks like before I walk away for good.”

She sighed but smiled. “Fine. Tell me what you need.”

Friday came. The house was spotless. Elodie lit cinnamon candles. Reid pulled a golden roast lamb from the oven. The salads were chilled, and garlic bread was hot from the grill.

At exactly six o’clock, Dennis and Nadine arrived.

Reid opened the door with a grin—and handed them two toilet brushes.

Dennis blinked. “What the hell is this?”

“Toilet brushes,” Reid said brightly. “Before dinner, I need you to clean the downstairs bathroom. Shouldn’t take long. Scrub the toilet, wipe the sink, mop the floor. You know… earn your place.”

Nadine looked like she’d been slapped. “You must be joking.”

Reid’s smile didn’t waver. “Everyone earns their place around here. No freeloaders, remember?”

Dennis’s face turned red. “I didn’t come here to clean your damn bathroom! I came to eat!”

“Scared of a little hard work?” Reid replied. “Don’t tell me you’re freeloaders.”

Elodie stood in the hallway, arms crossed.

Nadine snapped, “This is just petty. Childish.”

“Yes,” Reid nodded. “I know.”

They didn’t take the brushes. They didn’t move. Just stood there like statues.

Reid cleared his throat. “We were going to share some good news tonight. Elodie and I are engaged.”

Nadine looked caught off guard.

“But we won’t be inviting you to the wedding,” Reid added. “Not because of revenge. But because we only want people there who love and respect us.”

He opened the door wider. “I think we’re done here.”

Dennis muttered something under his breath as they walked away.

The next morning, Nadine’s sister posted on Facebook:

“Weddings should be about family… not elitism and revenge.”

No one tagged Reid. Not this time.

That evening, Elodie curled up next to Reid on the couch. No music. No TV. Just the soft hum of their home.

“Are we bad people?” she asked softly.

Her voice cracked something inside him.

He looked at her—really looked at her. The small freckle on her temple. The kindness in her eyes.

“I don’t think so,” he said. “But… I’ve asked myself that too.”

She leaned on his chest. “Why did it matter so much to you? Being accepted by them?”

He hesitated, then answered, “Because… I thought if I stayed helpful and polite enough, they wouldn’t rewrite the story of me.”

He sighed. “Even after the divorce, I showed up. Fixed things. Brought food. Smiled through their awkward jokes. And then I brought you—thinking they’d see us and realize I wasn’t a problem. That I still had goodwill.”

“You thought you were being noble,” Elodie whispered.

“Yeah. But really… I was just tired. Tired of trying to prove myself to people who would never respect me.”

She sat up and looked at him closely.

“I never wanted to be a test.”

“You weren’t,” he said. “You were the proof. That love doesn’t need permission. That I don’t have to earn kindness.”

Tears welled up in his eyes, and he didn’t hold them back.

“I didn’t plan that dinner to be cruel,” Reid said. “I did it because I needed to show you—and myself—that I wouldn’t let them humiliate us anymore.”

Elodie touched her forehead to his.

“I know,” she whispered. “And I’m proud of you.”

“I just wish I’d stopped trying to belong in the wrong place sooner.”

The silence between them felt peaceful now. Like a book finally closed.

“I don’t want our life to look like that,” Reid said.

“Then let’s build a better one,” Elodie smiled.

And just like that, something shifted.

Not a revenge story. Not a guilt story.

Just freedom.


THE END